My friend is getting married in a few months and just let us know she got a hotel room for the night before and we are required to stay there with her. I’m frustrated as a few of us are married, bringing our husbands from out of town and would like to stay with them. Is it rude to politely decline? My first year anniversary is also the day after and I’d rather make sure I’m not exhausted the next day.
I get it’s fun to stay with all your friends the night before but I don’t think it should be required?