Here's an etiquette question I've been pondering.
My daughter can feed herself with her fingers pretty neatly. She doesn't throw food or smear it everywhere or drop it on the floor, but she doesn't use silverware yet.
When we go out to eat (usually casual/family-type places), I'll get an extra plate for her, and then we put cut up pieces of our food on there for her to feed herself. Sometimes, these are actual finger foods for adults such as sandwiches and fries or pizza, but sometimes it's things like chicken breast and roasted veggies or a chef's salad, things that we eat with silverware. For liquid/saucy items like soup or pasta, we feed her with a spoon.
So I wonder what actual etiquette is? Should we be feeding her everything? Does it change based on whether we are using our fingers?