Hi! I need some advice/reassurance
my fiance has two older sisters who are both married with small children (they are 6 and 8 years older than him, which makes them 7 and 9 years older than me) I had asked my fiancé if he thought they would want to be in the wedding (I come from a big Italian family and my mom only had 1 of her 3 sisters in her wedding because the other 2 were older/married with kids, etc) and he didn’t think they would be upset so I chose not to ask them to be bridesmaids. My fiancé wanted to include my younger brother in his wedding party but I did not ask him too. My sister in law freaked out at me and fiancé last night saying we don’t value family and was incredibly offended that we’re not including them as bridesmaid (we mentioned that we wanted them to read at the ceremony and she basically told me that was a lesser role and not good enough) did I truly do something wrong? we’re having their kids in the wedding so I thought I was actually doing them a favor not having to stress about being in the wedding as well. I am absolutely sick about it and now feel like there is a dark cloud over my wedding. I honestly had no idea they would feel this way. Any advice ?