My husband and I offered to throw a 50th anniversary party for his parents and they accepted. We have the venue booked; invites are going out in the next week; I have the menu planned and ordered a cake/cupcakes from a great bakery.
Well today they randomly emailed and said they thought anniversary donuts would be fun instead of cake. What? They have a local donut shop they want to use. But I'm not interested in that at all and already ordered the cake. It's a small cake for cutting and eating and supplemented by cupcakes. Two flavors. I already bought the topper etc.
I told them I already had the cake covered. Was that okay? Did I mess up? I just thought since we are throwing it and hosting and paying I chose the food etc.