So my best friend/MOH decided to text me that she is not going to go to my wedding through text. She gave several reasons, all of which I feel she could've easily discussed with me and we could've figured something out. However, the worst part is I've known her since 6th grade, we live in the same city and we just saw each other last week. I just can't believe that she texted me it. That was so hurtful. I don't really care about the numbers regarding the wedding party, I care that my alleged best friend won't be there by my side on one of my biggest days. She doesn't get that texting it was so messed up and why it was disrespectful to do it that way.