Hello! Looking for a little insight/advise/guidance here. My fiance and I got engaged December 2017 and are getting married November 2019. Our wedding is in our hometown and none of our friends will need to travel. We have both decided we'd like to do destination bachelor/bachelorette parties.
Our good friends got engaged right before Christmas, and have mentioned they are wanting to get married in Mexico. My fiance is a groomsman, so that is a wedding we will be attending. I overheard the groom say it will be September or October 2019. Our friend (groom) would also like to have a destination bachelor party, in August 2019. The other bride and myself are good friends (she will be invited to my bachelorette) and we have mutual friends who would be invited to both weddings and bachelorette/bachelor parties.
Their wedding will be before ours, and we will have to pay for a lot prior to our big day. We do have a budget we need to stick to, and money is not the biggest issue for them. I am nothing but happy for them, but I am slightly freaking out because I feel like the other bride and groom/our mutual friends will not be able to attend mine and my fiances' bachelorette/bachelor parties because they will be financially tapped out by the time our events roll around.
I don't know if I'm being a brat/making myself upset over nothing or if I have a right to feel annoyed. My fiance and I will make it work, but I'm concerned about the mutual friends between us two couples. Any advise on what we should do?