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Fiance's Little Sister

My Fiance's 17 year old little sister wants to be a bridesmaid in our wedding. I love her, but she has a track record of not behaving well at weddings (she was in my fiance's brothers wedding and she complained about taking pictures, did her own hair-which looked awful, and wouldn't smile with her teeth). My future sister in law has told me that she regrets having her in her wedding party. Mostly, the only reason we hadn't considered having her in the wedding is because my fiance only has a few close friends he would consider having in the wedding party. I have numbered my bridesmaids to match his groomsmen. Adding his little sister would mess up the numbers (and i'm a perfectionist about things like symmetry and numbers).

So my question to you all is, how can I still make my fiance's little sister feel important, loved, and incorporated into our special day without making her a bridesmaid?
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