So I've been named the matron of honor at my best friend's wedding (naturally). But I'm not the best at planning super girly events and because of my super demanding job, (the Navy) I won't be making it to the wedding until late the night before. One of the other brides maids on the other hand is all about planning the girly stuff and I handed the reins off to for planning the events of the day before since I can't physically be there. (Which was totally fine with) Until the bride came out with the day of schedule which did not include me for the hair and make-up session, but the other girl. Should I be upset? Or am I overreacting? Is there something else I should be doing?