Hi Knotties,
I'm getting married in a little over 7 months. My father passed away a few years ago - we were very, very close and I was the only daughter out of four kids. I have three brothers and will be doing a dance with them to honor my Dad. The most stress I am having is over which song to choose. Initially I had chosen Josh Groban's "To Where You Are" but it is so damn sad. My "song" with my Dad was "Father and Daughter" by Paul Simon. The main phrase in the song is "There could never be a father who loves his daughter more than I love you." It is how we used to sign our texts and cards. Then I hear another song and think, "Maybe it should be this one." I guess the whole "Dad not being there" mentality is putting more pressure on me than it should so I am curious if anyone else has experience with this. Just a note, the song is non-negotiable and something I really want to do so I don't really want suggestions of "Just don't do it." Rather I would love to hear of songs where brides might have done something similar since it is a deeply sensitive and personal subject. Thanks, all!