Dear Prudence,
I am an unfortunate member of the class of 2020. COVID-19 has taken over the end of my senior year of college, including graduation. It is also becoming increasingly likely that I will have to postpone my graduation party. I understand why, and I’m OK with that, but my problem is with the gifts that I was going to ask for. I had been making a kind of housewarming registry because my job (which I am extremely grateful to still have in the midst of all this) will require me to move out into my first apartment at the beginning of June. I have some of the bare-minimum things that I would need to function (think plates and silverware), but there are a lot of other things that I was counting on getting from the registry to make sure I had everything I would need. Is it wrong for me to send out the registry around my graduation date anyway? Should I just wait until we can safely have the party? Or should I just suck it up and buy the things I’ll need once I can afford to?
—Graduation Present Blowout