Hi Knotties!
Long time lurker, first time poster
My FI and I are getting married in January 2021, and are getting ready to send out STDs. We both have larger families and intended to invite everyone before the pandemic hit. Now we're getting nervous about sending out the STDs because we're getting married in NY and have some concerns that there may be group size restrictions still during that time.
I know it's completely against etiquette to send a STD and not invite someone, but we also know that if anyone in our family receives a STD and other family members don't, we're never going to hear the end of it. Should we just not send STDs and just wait until we need to send out invites?
Additionally, I have a strong feeling that even as states reopen, the restrictions around # of people permitted to gather is going to continue to fluctuate - what happens if we invite 150 people and a month later the state says we can only have 50 people? Is it appropriate to 'uninvite' people then?
I know there are a lot of 'what if' questions here - we're trying to take it day-by-day but it's certainly hard to plan for the unplannable, just curious how other's are handling!