So my future Mother in Law won't leave me alone about why no one from my Fiancé's side is in the wedding. For example, he was in both of his sisters' weddings as a groomesmen. His sisters are both way older than me (I'll be 24 at the wedding and they'll be late 30s/early 40s) and im only having a small wedding party anyway and honestly I wouldn't consider us close enough to make them bridesmaids. I don't hate them but I'm closer to other women that I would make bridesmaids before them. His mother is also upset because his two nieces aren't involved at all. They'll be 12 and 10 by the time of the wedding so a little old to be flower girls. We're not having readings as we're not religious or programs at the wedding so I dont know what to do. His parents aren't paying for anything so I dont feel obligated to adhere to their wishes.