Hey! I need help. I have put on our invitations that the attire for our wedding (ceremony followed by reception) is semi-formal. I want to include more details on our website but am having a hard time finding a polite way to put it. I'd like people to take the opportunity to use our wedding as a date night themselves and get dressed up. I'm also asking that no one wear red or burgundy. I'm struggling to put all of that into wording that is fun, polite and positive but also gets the point across that this isn't really a suggestion.