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Do I invite them?? HELP!

So,... my relative (my mother), without my knowledge, reached out to my old sunday school teacher, who makes cakes now. I do love her (the teacher) and hold her dear to my heart, but would never have invited them to my VERY small, like 40 person (including us) wedding! Asking if they would make my wedding cake!?! Which I never thought my mother would do. So im a bit caught off guard anyway. And now I am conflicted about expanding the guest list to include her and her husband, that I REALLY dont want there. I would NEVER have asked her...!!!    
Please help!! What do i do???!!!

Re: Do I invite them?? HELP!

  • Send her a very heartfelt card thanking her and ensure that she's paid well. 


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    So,... my relative (my mother), without my knowledge, reached out to my old sunday school teacher, who makes cakes now. I do love her (the teacher) and hold her dear to my heart, but would never have invited them to my VERY small, like 40 person (including us) wedding! Asking if they would make my wedding cake!?! Which I never thought my mother would do. So im a bit caught off guard anyway. And now I am conflicted about expanding the guest list to include her and her husband, that I REALLY dont want there. I would NEVER have asked her...!!!    
    Please help!! What do i do???!!!

    Ditto Jen.  I'm lost on how asking someone to bake a cake = invitation to the wedding.  The only vendors who typically attend weddings are the caterers, band/DJ, photographer and videographer. 
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