My boyfriend’s sister will be getting married next year and I’m pretty positive I will not be in the wedding party. We have been together for 2 years and I am good friends with both his sister and fiancé. My boyfriend told me last night her fiancé asked him to be a groomsman, but I have heard nothing from her about bridesmaids. I asked him how many people were gonna be in the wedding party but he said he didn’t know yet. And since he’s already making his picks, I’m sure she has already made hers.
I’m not angry about it. I know this is their wedding and they have the right to choose whoever they want to be in the party, but I would be lying if I said I wasn’t feeling bummed and left out. Has anyone else ever been in this situation and how did you deal with it?