Would it be wrong to switch bridesmaid and a maid of honor? The maid of honor that I had picked out is going through a lot of stuff in her life right now and isn't very helpful with wedding planning or helping me out with bridesmaid things or made of honor things or anything with the wedding whereas one of my bridesmaids has picked up what the maid of honor should be doing with wedding planning and helping pick things out and making decisions and stuff like that. Would it be wrong of me to just switch positions? I would be switching the bridesmaid that is helping me to my maid of honor and the man of honor that hasn't been helping me as a bridesmaid. I would keep both of them in the wedding party It's not like I'm kicking one out to replace the other.