We are planning a week-long destination wedding for May 2022. We are only expecting about 20 guests. Neither of our families really "party" and we do not dance so we would like to do something a little untraditional for the cocktail hour and reception. Rather than having a formal reception, we were thinking of just having one long table sit down dinner where we can all eat together and enjoy each other's company. However, we would do the more traditional "wedding stuff" during the cocktail hour (which may be a little longer than an hour). I am trying to figure out what we should do during the cocktail hour and what we should do during the sit-down dinner.