My soon to be fiancé is deployed and we plan on getting engaged then married right after. We have been together six years already. We plan doing a very simple elopement just the two of us. We are going to have a more formal wedding in Fall 2022 depending on everything with Covid. My mom is resistant to any kind of elopement whether she is involved or not. My soon to be fiancé have decide to elope and not tell anyone. Do we really need to since we will have a more formal wedding a year later ? Thoughts and ideas. My mom is very stubborn and will be so angry and idk how if break it to her even though it's a decision I am very confident in.