Hi there! Without going into too much detail, my younger brother and sister both have mild to moderate intellectual disabilities. Those disabilities don't have a name, like autism, so it's hard to explain what exactly they struggle with. I want to involve them in the wedding, and they want to be involved, but I can't think of a good way to include them that is stress free, both for me and for them. My brother, for example, is an older teenager who requires very consistent supervision, something I don't want to fall to my parents on the day of. He wants to attend because I'm his big sister, but he thinks weddings are boring and kisses are gross!
So grateful for your help.