Hi,
I am seeking advice on what to do. My fiancé and I just got engaged last month, but we have been together many years. We are currently living on Guam (which is a U.S. territory but is veerryyy far from home). We've already started planning a wedding for next May, and even have a date and venue set! We have considered getting legally married before our wedding date (1 year before, to be exact) and not telling a single soul. We have several reasons to do this: 1. I currently have a job that does not provide me insurance, and private insurance on Guam is VERY expensive. My fiancé works as a contractor for the military so he has excellent insurance through USAA. He is not active duty military but he is a veteran. 2. He "deploys" to Japan 6 months out of every year. While he is gone, he wants to make sure I am taken care of. His job will also pay for me to fly home ($1,500 flight!!) once a year if we are married. 3. We think it would be best to keep it a secret because we have already started the wedding planning. Both of our mothers have already said that they don't want us to elope (because we joked about it before we were even engaged). I realize that sometimes you can do a civil ceremony and only have close family there, but it's almost impossible for our families to be there. Due to covid, Guam has a mandatory 6 day quarantine in a military quarantine facility, so anyone coming/ returning would have to quarantine. As mentioned before, flights are also SUPER EXPENSIVE. We always have the option of at least telling them that we're doing the civil ceremony and not having them here, but I think that would hurt more than if we did it and they never found out? I don't think they would because the marriage license would be on Guam so it's not like they would be searching the records or we would run into anyone we know at the courthouse. Does anyone know the rules about getting a second marriage license in another state once you've already gotten one (in this example, we would already have one from Guam)? Is that even allowed?