We're getting married this summer in my home town- though we both live in another state, and all our friends live in other states. It's his third wedding, and my first. I have a super large family, and he does not communicate with his family. I have many friends from different times in my life, and he has only a couple close friends. We've been together for 4 years so we have lots of friends in common, and my family loves him. I'm just starting to feel guilty that it's so heavily weighted towards my family, and friends that started out mine. It's not going to be an expensive wedding, and we're not having bridal parties, or people standing with us, and will have open seating for both the wedding and reception. Any thoughts or advice?