My close friend is getting married and I am one of 6 in her wedding party. We are so happy for her, but we are starting to get really stressed out. We offered to throw a bridal shower that was originally supposed to be about 45 people. We booked at a place she loves that is not inexpensive.... However, the MOH informed us that when the bride gave us the guest list she invited every female wedding guest, about 70 people. We can't back out now, but it is going to cost us almost double the amount we had originally planned on. Also, she decided she wanted a weekend getaway Bachelorette party... and increased the original guest list from 10 to 14 that we have to plan. It's going to end up costing us about $1000 each for these two parties. That's not including dress, hair, makeup, expensive lodging at her destination wedding or shower/wedding gifts. I am not sure if I am overreacting but I think she is being really unfair to her wedding party... Should I say something? The invitations have all been sent so it seems like there's no point now.