So my friend is getting married she asked me to be her maid of honor, we were close but not as close to be her MOH. Her wedding got canceled because of covid but this year everything is happening. She is having 2 weddings. One at the beach and another one at the church. Because there is limitations on the number of people she cut all the bridesmaids off the beach wedding leaving them behind with their dresses and only invited them to the dinner, she said i can show up to the ceremony but stand far away and then get closer when it’s over for a picture. I thought she wanted a bachelorette party in vegas and i said yes but since all of her bridesmaids don’t talk to her only she’s going with her fiance, her brother and gf and me and my bf. I spent so much money on flight, hotel, i paid for the stripper show and i still need to find activities. On the other hand her mom began planning a bachelorette party at her house. I was not expecting this party at all since i thought Vegas was it. Well now they expect me to help them plan for the party. I helped with a few decorations and some food but they keep asking me if I’m getting her a stripper? I have already spent so much money and they want me to pitch in for something i didn’t even planned! I spent so much on the Vegas trip already. Do you think this is right? I’m so stressed, I’ve been helping to been there for her but financially i cannot spend that much money that i don’t even have.