Hello everybody. I would have never imagined our guest list would halt our marriage plans like this.
To summarize a very long story short… my future bride now doesn’t want to get married if two of my invitees (both female) go because according to her… those two friends of mine “wanted me to cheat on her with them”.
That is something that is just not true. Neither them nor I have ever felt romantically in either direction and we’ve been just friends for years before my fiancé and I met.
What did happen, however, was a period where my friends despised my fiancé back in high school because they thought she was too arrogant and they would talk bad about her.
Now, my fiancé told me “either they don’t go or I won’t have a wedding”.
What am I supposed to do here?
They’ve been my friends since before I met my fiancé and although yes they had their “fights” back in High School I’m not happy just taking them out.
Also interesting to note how my fiancé’s family has been absolutely toxic towards us since day 1 but I didn’t reject them on her wedding list. I accepted them out of respect for my fiancé but apparently “they’re family so they have to go” but my friends can’t.
What a mess.