I've been to several weddings recently where the officiant either drones on or dicusses how hard marraige is and the possiblity of divorce... umm... what!?!?!?
I don't think the wedding day is the day to counsel me on how often people are divorced or to demand that I obey everything my hubby says to keep him happy (I heard that one last year).
I just want something inspirational, fun, and lighthearted that focuses on the love involved and the commitment that we are making. I like our officiant.. but I feel like after I've seen so many disasters that I should give him some guidance on what I prefer.... does anyone know of a great message out there that I can give him to show what i mean???