My sister (who is a year older than me) and I are not talking right now. My sister has shown up for me in my life but she can be somewhat of a drama queen and cause unnecessary stress she can also be really sweet. Unfortunately right now, we are not talking at all besides the family group chat. She doesn’t invite me to any of her gatherings and doesn’t come to mine. Should I still invite her to be a bridesmaid? Part of me feels she wouldn’t do it anyway but I should give her the choice so at least I can always say I invited her. The other part of me feels like who cares, I only want the women by my side who have loved me unconditionally and have never cut me out of their lives & I know I can count on—especially b/c I want to feel at ease the big day. It’s kind of weird because my other older sister will be my maid of honor, & her & my relationship is really great.