Wedding Woes

Stop. Making. Plans. With. Him.

Dear Prudence,

I met a nice, tall, dark, and handsome man online, and we initially hit it off. The problem is when it comes to making and breaking plans. He’ll ask me to get together for a drink after work then pick me up only to say he’s not feeling up to it and cancel right then and there after he already picked me up. I could have made other plans but chose to make time for him. He’ll say he was thinking of getting together but was too tired and blamed his age (only 50!). Another time he asked me to go to the movies. I told him I’d go with him after work that day, but he was off and only goes to the movies in the morning. He won’t make plans with me, but I’ll see him on social media doing fun activities and plans. We like to do a lot of the same things yet he doesn’t ask me about those.

— Seeing Red Flags

Re: Stop. Making. Plans. With. Him.

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