I’m needing advice! One of the bridesmaids I’d prefer is my step mother in law. She’s a young soul and has been amazing to me and a confidante in so many ways. However, there’s been bad blood between her and FH’s mother. It’s very awkward when they’re at events together and although the Step is very mature, the bio mom can be petty and often gets drunk and will become loose lipped about how much she doesn’t like the step. She’s done it to me before. The bio mom doesn’t know how close I am with the step and I’m afraid of exacerbating the issue by having the step mom in my wedding party. A part of me is like IDAF it’s my day and anyone who wants to start drama can get TF out, and the other part of me doesn’t want to be the source of additional drama.
Thoughts? I’d love an outside perspective.