Dear Prudence,
I am a 25-year-old male and a virgin (not for religious or moral reasons, just focused on studies rather than dating). Now, though, I am looking to get into the dating world, and something is worrying me. My dick, when erect, tops out at 4.4-4.7 inches (which, to be fair, obviously is based on masturbation so I don’t know if it would get “more erect” in live play, but I don’t think that’s how it works). I know that isn’t a micropenis, but it is also below-average.
My question is this: Is it possible for me to be the best sex of a partner’s life, with that physical length? To be clear, I know it won’t happen right away. It will require learning moves and positions, learning oral and other forms of stimulation, and communication. I am willing to put in that work. I guess my question is—is it POSSIBLE to be the best sex of my partner’s life?
I don’t ask to satisfy some ego trip. I guess I am worried that it will be hard to enjoy sex in a relationship if I know that the best sex of their life lies elsewhere, so I’d know during sex they’d rather be with someone else.
— Limited but Hoping
Re: It's not the size, it's the motion in the ocean.
btw I didnt read the title when I mirrored the motion of the ocean line. Lol. I had to use that line once on an ex. And I beileved it too.
but what Charlotte said… he measured?
So, LW could actually do real research to help them get a head (heh) start on sexual experiences. Furthermore, LW has to understand that there will be a learning curve with every partner. Not all women are the same and respond the same way to the same touch/moves/stimuli.
but also this:
The bolded is so very true.
My EX BF tried to tell me when he got caught cheating that he was really frustrated that his dick wasn't enough.....so he thought practicing with other women would help??
I wish we could teach young people that sex is fun. And messy. And never, ever perfect. But when you have the right partner(s) and know yourself, you can make it a good time more often than not.
Now I'm thrilled that I can wear a backless dress with just tape.