How was everyone’s weekend? Mine was good. We’re all worried about SIL who’s still in the hospital in St. Louis but her mom & sister are with her, so we’re not going to overcrowd. Saturday was boating, kyaking, and dinner at the Marina. Sunday was rain all day so we saw “where the crawdads sing” and dinner.
I was supposed to leave early to head home. One of my friends wants me to attend his game night. But it’s not the board games like you and I are thinking. He says they’re non traditional ones. So i’m not too too excited to go. I gave him a heads up yesterday that I may be staying in the area, depending on my SIL. 2 years ago when I was running my infedelity group, I had some cabinets for my kitchen reno delivered to my house early. It was on a night of the groups zoom call, so I called him and said he’d have to take over the meeting because I was on my way to home depot to get something to move these. He offered to come over and help. I accepted. I also paid him $40 for gas/time (and he doesn’t live more than 20 minutes away). Wouldn’t you know it? He’s brought up this good deed like 8 times to me already. Almost everytime we talk.
He did it again yesterday when he asked if he could do anything for me. I roll my eyes at his “help” though. He also brings up all the good deeds he does for everyone else ALL THE TIME. Trying to get all this validation for being “a good person” negates the fact that you’re a good person. So honestly I’m turned off by going to this game night, that starts so early in the evening I’d have to uber it to the place downtown Chicago and take time off work for.
also a true LOL from me
