I just went to my niece's wedding where all sets of grandparents and step grandparents were featured as honored guests. They walked down the aisle with the procession before the bride and were seated in the reserved section. The other grandparent (my widowed father) was treated like any other guest. It was really uncomfortable to watch. Also, this bride and her mother specifically told us that this was an adults only wedding and that kids were not permitted. Although my children (who are first cousins to the bride) are over 18, we were told they should NOT attend as well as the other first cousins on the bride's side of the family. After attending the wedding last night, it was apparent there were MANY kids and young adults of all ages present. We assume they are relatives of the grooms. I am wondering why my dad and our families were treated so horribly? Obviously our feelings are hurt and we wonder what we ever did to deserve this horrible and rather obvious difference in the way we have been treated. I am mad...especially for my dad, the widowed grandfather. :-( Should we confront the bride and her parents? Not sure what good it will do since it's clear we are (less than) second fiddle.