I was friends with an opposite-sex couple that led us into becoming a throuple. There’s always been issues between them and their long-standing relationship, but the dynamic between the man and me was unlike anything we’d ever felt before. They were on the rocks, he and I got closer, but I backed out because how could we build anything in the middle of all the chaos? I am still friends with her, but he and I haven’t spoken in a year. They just started talking again recently, and I feel down at times because I miss him so much. I think of him and dream about him daily. She never took my feelings into account when we were all together, and I feel she still doesn’t see how this all affects me, even with knowing how sad it’s made me not having him around. Do I reach back out to him (because I know he feels the same as I do), or is it best to just walk away from one of my best friends (her) and let them both be on their way.