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This is a toxic stew.

Dear Prudence,

I work a full-time and part-time job while going to school. I pay rent and live with my uncle, his girlfriend “Ava,” and her three teenage Neanderthals. Ava treats me as her live-in maid. Anytime there is a mess, she stomps up complaining and expects me to drop everything and clean. It is clean until her disgusting sons come in and mess everything up. But it is too hard for Ava to actually parent them. She rather scream at me. It is so bad that I don’t use the common areas anymore and bought a microwave and mini-fridge. Last time I was gone for three days, Ava welcomes me home by screeching about how dirty the house was. I screamed back that I am not cleaning up messes that I didn’t make, and I pay rent, unlike other people.

She went whining to my uncle about disrespect. He told me I needed to respect the household. I told him to respect our signed lease. If he kicked me out, he could see me in small claims court. He told me he regrets letting me in. I cried and said did he regret getting the light and water turned back on then? Everything is horrible, and I can’t afford to move out. Help.

—No Cinderella Here

Re: This is a toxic stew.

  • Oh LW this is awful.

    Start looking for a place to live.  See what you can do to network and make connections so maybe there's a roommate situation out there that may be better than what you're currently doing.  If you're in school, swing by a student center in the college and see if there are recommendations they may have for housing our resources. 
  • Ugh. That is truly terrible. Until you figure out out a way to move out, put a lock on your door. And definitely do not do anything around the house. You are tenant, not a maid. 
  • This is awful. Go to your school housing office and see if there’s emergency housing available, or look for roommates in off campus housing. Random people from class are going to be far better than this situation. 
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