My best friend is getting married for the 3rd time. She has never had a bachelorette party so I decided I would throw her one. She is having a tiny wedding so there is only a MOH and best man in the wedding party. I'm the MOH. She gave me a list of friends/co-workers to invite to the bach party. The party was scheduled months in advance and 4 hours from home. I created an itinerary for the weekend. Each person paid almost 200.00 for the entire weekend. That covered the cost of the house, painting, concert ticket and what remained we gave to the bride for spending money over the weekend. Everyone besides two of us, the MOH and my other best friend, arrived 4 hours early to make sure all the decorating was done before the guest arrived at the house. Remind you it cost me an extra 65.00 to check into the house early. Everyone was supposed to arrive at 4:00 pm. A little after 4:00, I call the bride and she tells me she is still 2 hours away. I messaged other guest and asked for their ETA's nothing but crickets. Around 6:00, everyone arrives at the house. We had a painting reservation for 6:00 pm. We had two hours of activities before painting so we could do welcome bags and introduce each other because a lot of us didn't know each other. We had to rush out the door and was late to the place I had made the painting reservation. We paint and go back to the house and by then it's 9:00 pm and everyone besides like four of us wants to go to a club that is about an hour away. I began the games that were on the itinerary and after about three of them, I could tell they were over it. They all leave, including the bride-to-be to go to the club. They all come in at 4:00 am., remind you, our day is to start at 9:00 the next morning. They didn't get up until 9:00 and out the door by 10:00 so we missed our breakfast reservation. The plan until 2:00 was to shop and visit the historical place we were visiting. They complained the entire time about being tired and how expensive stuff was at the stores. It was ok when they wanted to spend almost 200.00 the night before on a Uber to get to the club. We ended up leaving early to go back to the house to get ready for our night out. We went to dinner and of course, just about everyone complained about the price. Remind you, all of the guests have amazing careers and make a lot of money, probably 3 times the amount that I do. I had to save a lot to make this weekend happen. After dinner, we went out and all they did was sit around on their phones and look like they were about to fall asleep. The bride-to-be was having a good time but decided we could just go back to the house and have fun since everyone was tired. All of her people went upstairs and never came back down. I went to bed because I was just done at this point. I had planned to cook everyone breakfast before departing on Sunday at 10:00 but most of them got up and left before then. I got not a single thank you, need help with anything, nothing at all. I spent about 1000.00 for the weekend not including my 200.00 for the house etc. I made t-shirts, purchased food, decorations, etc. I'm upset about the weekend because I feel very disrespected not only by most of the guests but also the bride-to-be. How would you handle the conversation with the bride-to-be about how I'm feeling?