Im planning my wedding in SF for this July on the 27th. I feel like I have looked at everything in the city and outside and I haven't found anything that I like or that I can afford. I feel like Im having trouble wanting to throw out 20k for food and drinks etc for a bunch of people. If anyone knows of a hidden gem thats not on every website I would love to hear about it. I have become totally disengaged with wanting to plan my wedding because there is so much to do and the cost is so high. Any ideas would be greatly appreciated!!!!!