Dear Prudence,
I lost the love of my life to homicide when I was 20. We’d been together since childhood. I’ve dated occasionally after a lot of goading and years of counseling to try to get my life back together, but I just don’t feel that connection with anyone else. I’m in my late 30s and happy in a successful career. I left the area where we grew up shortly after it happened, and recently, I’ve started coming back for business. Every time I run into someone I knew or my parents knew, I’m asked why I’m not married with kids yet. I’ve tried to be polite with my responses, but the questions and badgering don’t stop. I even wear my ring. How do I get people to leave me alone about not having a corporeal husband and stop trying to pawn me off on someone’s never-married nephew?
—Forever Married to My Love