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ILoveBeachMusic

First of all, you sent out invitations really early if you are two months out and she already has an invitation. Secondly, if you rescind the invite it will be a friendship ending move and poor etiquette. Think about that. Do you really want to do that? I don't know how big of a wedding you are having but you most likely won't interact with her very much the day of your wedding if she isn't in your wedding party. She might annoy some of your friends but probably won't be around you that much.

climbingsingle

I’m going to need examples of what she did. 

And disinviting her will end your friendship. Are you prepared for that?

banana468

What's done is done but i'll echo PPs that I think you sent invitations way too early if the invitations were sent already and you're only now 2 months from the wedding.

Also, unless your wedding is under 25 people I think a person who makes a scene at a bachelorette isn't necessarily going to be in your face at a wedding.  My bachelorette was my friends and me in an intimate gathering for the night. The wedding was a bigger event and my attention was focused far more on being with my husband and then visiting our families.   The person who was over served and acted silly was on her own - it wasn't a reflection of me, didn't ruin the wedding and didn't take away from my attention.