My wife has probably the worst case of imposter syndrome that I have ever seen or experienced, mainly in relation to her job, but it permeates many other aspects of her life. Her job is the main problem. It gets to a point where she can’t do anything at all. She refuses to get any type of professional help, and when she comes to me for advice and insight, she dismisses nearly everything we talk about. She does take advice and help from friends and acts on it, even when it is the same/similar advice we talked about together. This has happened during our entire relationship. After 20 years, I’m at the point where I don’t know how to help her or handle how it affects me. I am in therapy, but unfortunately, the solution that seems to keep making itself apparent is to give her an ultimatum: either get professional help or I’m leaving. Is it too drastic too to think that divorce is now an option? I hate that it has come to that, but it’s having a major impact on every part of our lives.