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Find some friends who feel the same to talk about it

Dear Prudence,

I’m a medical student who is sick over the “recent” political shifts. I find myself obsessing over each update throughout the day, essentially kneecapping myself from doing what I feel I need to do to be successful in my program. It feels like no one at my school is talking about what’s happening. I’m afraid for my future patients, my loved ones, and (selfishly) for myself. I see a future of suffering and overworking in the face of a party and an ever-growing contingent of people who think that science is based on falsehoods and that doctors are trying to trick them for profit. I know that any future we have needs good people who are focused on doing good things, but I truly cannot stop ruminating while feeling so horribly powerless to stop the tide. What am I supposed to do?

Re: Find some friends who feel the same to talk about it

  • Find people in your program but also, can you talk to those who head the program and look up what they are recommending??  Write to your elected officials, etc??
  • levioosalevioosa member
    Knottie Warrior 5000 Comments 500 Love Its 5 Answers
    Sorry LW, I'm currently there. I work in an office that is mostly (I assume, from comments and previous conversations) Republican. Including providers (which, like, stings in a whole different way). I feel like I'm taking crazy pills that more people aren't outraged and upset. I can see in real time how everything is affecting our patients and community. Luckily I have one coworker who is with me on the insanity and honestly that helps a lot. I have to take breaks but I've also become more obsessive again with the news. There is a reason why doctors are leaving healthcare in droves. It's being compounded now. You have to give yourself space from the news at times. And try finding local groups who are like minded and who can help you with activism. I always feel like that one tiktoker who jokes about meeting people and fishing to see where they fall, "I'm glad you could try out this restaurant with me! Of course I didn't order for you, I wanted you to see the options! I'm pro choice *squints*." 


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