I wanted my friend to be my MOH. We have been friends since we were 6 and our families have become Chosen Family. She has a terminal illness and lives 4 hours away. With her health, she cannot commit to be even a Bridesmaid. I personally would be fine if she chose not to come the day of, due to her health, but she would put her health at risk to be there no matter what. I don't want that stress on her, but I still want her to be a part of the party. We agreed that she would still be a part of any or all of the wedding stuff she wanted, she will be in the Bridal sweet day of, and SHE WILL HOLD NO RESPONSIBILITIES. I want to honor her with a title. Does anyone have any ideas?