Can we not have dancing?

knottie44272ecaa0edaecb

We aren't big dancers but I still want a first dance. After that, what should we do?

charlotte989875

knottie44272ecaa0edaecb said:

We aren't big dancers but I still want a first dance. After that, what should we do?

I do think it’s a bit odd to have a “first” dance if you’re not going to have any more dancing. Kind of like asking people to watch you do something they don’t get to do. 

I generally don’t believe adults need to be “entertained” at a party. But if you don’t want something else for people, depending on the formality and location you could do lawn games, photo wall, large card for people to sign. 

banana468

charlotte989875 said:

knottie44272ecaa0edaecb said:

We aren't big dancers but I still want a first dance. After that, what should we do?

I do think it’s a bit odd to have a “first” dance if you’re not going to have any more dancing. Kind of like asking people to watch you do something they don’t get to do. 

I generally don’t believe adults need to be “entertained” at a party. But if you don’t want something else for people, depending on the formality and location you could do lawn games, photo wall, large card for people to sign. 

This.  I"ve been to weddings with no dancing but think it would be odd to see dancing and no guest dancing.  That feels more performative than inclusive.