I was married at 17, we stayed married for 25 years. I was selfish. I filed for a divorced but he never gave up on me and thank God he didn’t we got back together 3 years later and now I want to have a wedding with our beautiful kids and grandkids involved. A wedding that we want not a wedding that his family threw together in 3 days like our first one. Am I stupid for wanting to plan a wedding? I’m not even sure if I want it on our original anniversary day. Please help!