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Wedding Woes

Friday

short+sassyshort+sassy member
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edited December 5 in Wedding Woes
Normally Friday is a good day.  But it is bad news bears for me.  I did get called in for that dreadful meeting this morning and it was the worst outcome possible.  I'm being laid off and my last day is Dec 26th.

I've been working here for 13 years!  It's really the end of an era.  Both my former and current boss thanked me for all the work I've done over the years in keeping the steel management department running so smoothly.  But the client has terminated my role.  Nobody else does this job, though I recently started training someone in our client's Procurement department on it.  Both my bosses were shaking their head at the huge gap this is going to leave and remarked that the client really hasn't thought this through.

It was nice to at least have some validation.  They both emphasized they would be happy to give me strong references.  I know my boss had been looking for other work for me, but there just isn't anything.  I also found out that a Project Management person who has been here even longer than I have is also being laid off this month.

Soooooo.  I guess I'm going to start making plans to move to Cincinnati.  This job was the only thing keeping me here.  I hope this opens the door for me to better opportunities.  I know the comfort of this job had made me too complacent.
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Re: Friday

  • I'm so sorry @short+sassy what an awful time of year to do it.  I hope your escape plans are set given that bomb they dropped on you. 
  • Oh @short+sassy, I am so sorry.  That just sucks.  

    Kill Bill: The Whole Bloody Affair, was quite good.  It really didn't feel like I was there that long, except for the last 1/2 hour where I got a bit squirrely and sleepy.  Of course, that got started b/c there's the buried alive scene and I don't handle those scenes well, I get pretty anxious about those.

    I think it's officially winter here.  We had about an inch of snow earlier in the week and the temperature has been cold most days.  Nothing compared to farther north yet, but I'm sure it's on the way.

    This weekend is the last race of the F1 season.  The drivers championship is coming down to this race.  My favorite driver is in 3rd, but could still win.  I want him to win OR the current world champion, who is in 2nd, to win.  I don't want the driver who is in 1st place right now to win.  It should be a nail-biter of a race.  It's on at 7 am on Sunday and I've been sleeping late, so hopefully I wake up in time to watch live.  If I don't, I'll just avoid my limited social media until I can watch.

    Otherwise, not too much going on this weekend.  I've got one project to do. I'm hardwiring my internet connection.  I had to buy a very long cord to do this, but I have to cover the cord in a cat-proof cover.  I finally found a tool to help do this; trying to put a 100 foot cord into a 100 foot cover was taking way too long and making my hands hurt.  Other than that, just hunkering in from the cold and watching the zooms.
  • Thanks for the support, @VarunaTT and @banana468.  I started the Friday thread with just a couple sentences.  But then edited it to add more about the situation.

    @banan468. my escape plans are not nearly as set as I would like them to be, lol.  But "soon" I will have all the time in the world to get that going.  I do at least have a few months of savings.  Along with a Home Equity Line of Credit.  Plus a lot of equity in my rental real estate holdings.  I just can't get my hands on that until I sell them.  Which were my plans for two of them anyway, I've just procrastinated on some of the repairs I need to make before putting them on the market.

    But I certainly don't want to live off equity from my line or property sales.  I want to use that money for a down payment on my next personal home...and will need a job for that kind of loan anyway...as well as a down payment for a small apartment complex.

    I feel I have the experience now to "graduate" myself from duplexes to a larger property, like a complex.  If I play that right, I could live off the monthly proceeds and wouldn't necessarily have to have a job.  But I'd want the security of regular income from a W-2 job for the first couple years after I buy a complex, jic shit hits the fan.
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  • Oh @short+sassy I’m sorry! That really sucks. 
  • I'm so sorry @short+sassy. What terrible news, and for the holidays too. Sending you hugs. 

    Two more days of work and I am ready to sleep in on Sunday. I am tired. But otherwise not too much is happening. I still don't feel 100% and I've been fighting something all week. I think I just need to sleep for a solid 10 hours to knock it out. Otherwise, SSDD. Next week it's supposed to be 83 and I'm so annoyed about it. December should not be that hot. 


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  • ei34ei34 member
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    edited December 5
    Healthy vibes your way @levioosa
    Good luck with the wiring and enjoy the final F1 race @VarunaTT

    I am so sorry @short+sassy, for the timing and that it is happening.  All the best vibes as you guys continue on your path to Cincinnati  <3

    Weekend is looking to be a good mix of festive holiday fun, but not too busy (hopefully).  This evening will be pizza making and a Christmas movie, tomorrow holds a holiday party with good friends and a swim meet, and Sunday we'll head into the city early for our annual Christmas in the city.  Planning the tree nice and early, followed by 9am mass at St. Patrick's, some sightseeing, and a 10:30 brunch rezzie at the next Christmas restaurant on my list. 

    edit - misspell 
  • @MNNEBride, I'm sending all the thoughts and prayers that your meeting goes a lot better than mine!  Good luck and I'm crossing my fingers for you.
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  • Ugh! I had a response written out and then I fast fingered everything and it all went *poof*. I’m so sorry that happened to you, @short+sassy. I wasn’t expecting this outcome for you either. Hopefully it does open the door for Cincinnati then. 
    Healing vibes for @levioosa and @MNNEBride. Hope your call went well today too! 

  • I'm so sorry @short+sassy. I hope you can get the Cincy plans set quickly. @MNNEBride, hope your meeting went well today. 

    We are home this weekend since the cold weather closed the Yuletide Village we were to visit with in DS2 in Ohio. Hopefully next weekend it will workout. I'm almost done with Christmas cards then they go in the mail. Next will be wrapping presents. My back and sciatic issue ( the surgeon told me that is what it is not hip) prevent me from doing things for long periods of time so things are going slower this year.

    The cold weather is making me think I don't want to move to Chicago area but the political situation in Indiana just makes me ill. We are getting ready to be gerrymandered. Democrats will have no representation if it goes through. I hate this state. However, moving further north will just be colder with a longer winter then I want. I now understand why my mom didn't want to move from NC when she was alive. I do want to be closer to the grandkids though. Ugh!
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