So originaly my fiance and I thought we would run off and get married but then my grandmother talked to me and told me that she regretted doing it to her parents. So now we aren't sure what to do because we want to get married December 21st 2012 because the best man is in the air force and is getting deployed at the first of the year. Well we don't want many people, so we want it small, and we don't really have a lot of money to put into it. We thought that we would still run off and then after wards have a reception and invite everyone. I asked my grandmother and she had no advice for me because she didn't do that. I need help! please give me some ideas, anything is good.