Did anyone have any wedding guests that didn't bring a gift? We had a few. I'm not trying to sound materialistic or anything, but seriously ---you show up at a wedding, shouldn't bringing a gift be a no-brainer? (especially when we are paying $40 a head for food and liquor and you brought a date) I understand if you are recently laid off, or don't have a lot of money or forgot a gift, etc. But i think some of the people were just free-loaders.