SO I am looking for some assistance on being a Bridesmaid. I am getting married this July and one of my Bridesmaids is getting married in early December. I am in her wedding as well.For a handful of reasons she has done little with her personal wedding planning. I am very much a planner and an organizer and hate that we are 9 months away from her wedding and I have no idea what’s going on. Just recently she has started to pull a handful of things together and talk about ideas but still nothing concrete. My finance and I(long before being asked to be a Bridesmaid) had decided upon doing mini-moons rather than a long honey moon to follow our wedding. Also, as we have never done what one might call a big gift exchange, we decided to spurge on each other at this time.
With my friend starting to talk a bit more about her wedding, I am starting to get concerned with finances. I have never been a Bridesmaid before, so I have no prior experience with the general costs. Can anyone relay what they have contributed to the average Shower and Bachelorette party?
I realize it is important to stay within your means regardless of what the norm is, but I have no idea what to expect. Additionally, having no idea what to expect and knowing her decisions are going to come at the 13th hour, I starting to get concerned it will affect decisions we have made regarding our own wedding plans from a financial stand point.
Any suggestions, guidance recommendations would be greatly appreciated!!