I just realized I have no idea about what's suppose to happen at the actual wedding. My friends mom is an officiant who is marrying us. I asked for a program to know what is suppose to happen, but she told me to create one!?!?!?! I have no idea what is suppose to happen. I know I wanted a unity sand , and say our own vows but what else is suppose to help me. I only have 109 days to the wedding... HELP ANYONE!