I need advice,help!

natmb3883

I am getting married later this year.My sister is going to be my MOH.The problem is that she hates our mother(with good reason).I have recently been wondering if I should invite my mother to the wedding.I know that if I do,my sister probably won't show up.How do I choose between them?Should I let my sister's feelings be the deciding factor or just invite her anyway and risk not having my sister there?

kayleighe

It's not the MOH's job to like everyone at the wedding -- it's her job to support the bride! You do NOT need to choose between them. Explain to her that it's YOUR wedding and while she may not want the mother at HER wedding, she is your MOH and needs to be supportive of you. Tell her that if she can't do that (and behave gracefully at the event!) then you can find someone who will.... that's what I would do anyway. JMO.

jennalynne2

I agree with Kayleigh. Your wedding day is about YOU. If you want both your mom and sister there, then they should both be there. You shouldn't let one or the other dictate who gets to be included in your once in a lifetime special day.

ChaunteM09

I totally agree with PP.. this is YOUR day! you invite whoever you want to be there... Your sister doesn't get to pick.. she needs to support you..that's her role...

kayleighe

Keep us posted on this! I want to know how it plays out -- hopefully stress free for you!

acausey6879

I would invite them both and talk to your sister beforehand.  It's YOUR wedding day and you don't want to regret years later that your family wasn't there.