I want to come up with some great pre-wedding activity ideas to do with out guests and families before and/or after the wedding! And the groom would really like to do something cool with his buddies before the wedding, but NOT the almost-cliche golf outing. Any suggestions??
Also, our wedding is on a Friday and most of our OOT guests are coming in Wed-Sun so we're getting an entire wedding week almost and I want to find cool things for everyone to do together to help break the ice. But I also don't want to send the impression that we're going to foot the bill for everything either. I'm including a schedule of events in the OOT welcome bags that I'm putting together and I thought that adding whatever outing we've chosen (ie mini golf, volleyball, ghost tour, etc) on the itinerary with the cost pp right there on it might be a good idea??? But I don't want people to think that they're required to be attend things AND they have to pay for it, too, ya know?
How do I word it best so they know they have the option to attend, but that we're not paying for it???
Help!