I just wanted to thank all you ladies for all the advice and words of wisdom. The wedding was great and we had a blast! Belhurst Castle as beautiful. Nothing went wrong, we were a little behind schedule, but that was ok. I am going to take the time to say that if you need a DJ, Showcase Sound in Rochester was AMAZING! So was Sentiments Photography! And the cake was delicious and so pretty (She Takes the Cake). Again, thank you to all who gave me advice! Especially about dealing with the in-laws. See y'all on the Nest after your marriages!